Kacia Marie Duir on Instagram: "1. We were able to develop a friendship first. Without introducing intimacy early on we were able to see if we actually liked each other as people first. Because of that, the friendship in our marriage is still there because we spent our dating period focused on building that over anything else. 2. We built our relationship on our faith, shared values, and our love for the people around us. This isn’t to say that attraction and chemistry don’t matter. They do and